Confession # 79

I don’t want to play “The Dating Game!”

I went out on a date tonight with a guy who talked all about “The Game.” The three rules for his game were simple he said; act, dress, and impress! Be in control, take charge, tell the woman (me) what she wants, dress as if you have been thinking all day how to be her (my) best accessory, impress her (me) with a complete knowledge of her (my) inter thoughts and find true connection.

This guy was so lost in the game, he did not even notice that after the third martini I had stopped listening to him and started flirting with the guy at the other end of the bar.

I don’t know, maybe some women, with very low self esteem would go for that, but not me. I want someone who is upfront, says what he means and means what he says.

I WANT A MAN NOT A GUY!

Take charge if that is who you are, but don’t think for me. Dress nice and neat, but do it for you. I already picked out what I want to be my best accessory (tonight it was a pair Donald J Pliner boots with just a touch of fur at the top), impress me by noticing my eyes and not my breasts! Or at least my boots! ☺