Confession # 95
I believe the only way to survive the dating game is to
DATE LIKE A MAN!
At brunch yesterday I was telling my friends about my date Friday night. The reactions I got varied greatly between the men and the women.
My Girlfriends were practically picking out wedding gowns for me but my Guyfriends said, that is great, but keep your options open. Take it for what it was… One good date! And one good date does not a relationship make!
Since I am dating men and not women I am going to listen to the advice of my target audience.
That is right, I am going to approach this with a sound mind—meaning I am not going to put all my eggs in this basket. I am not going to start doodling his name on napkins at Starbucks or planning romantic summer getaways. I am not going to get swept away in romance because I had one good date.
Yes I would like to see this man again, but who knows if I actually will. We both said we would call, but I have not picked up a phone and he has not rung mine. It was left as a to be continued... but in reality it was what it was, one good date.
It means there will be other good dates, there will be a whole lot of other bad dates, but there will be other good ones. That is all I really need to know and believe, now that my one good date changed my mind about coupling.
DATE LIKE A MAN!
At brunch yesterday I was telling my friends about my date Friday night. The reactions I got varied greatly between the men and the women.
My Girlfriends were practically picking out wedding gowns for me but my Guyfriends said, that is great, but keep your options open. Take it for what it was… One good date! And one good date does not a relationship make!
Since I am dating men and not women I am going to listen to the advice of my target audience.
That is right, I am going to approach this with a sound mind—meaning I am not going to put all my eggs in this basket. I am not going to start doodling his name on napkins at Starbucks or planning romantic summer getaways. I am not going to get swept away in romance because I had one good date.
Yes I would like to see this man again, but who knows if I actually will. We both said we would call, but I have not picked up a phone and he has not rung mine. It was left as a to be continued... but in reality it was what it was, one good date.
It means there will be other good dates, there will be a whole lot of other bad dates, but there will be other good ones. That is all I really need to know and believe, now that my one good date changed my mind about coupling.
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